People have told me that I’m brave and that they admire me.  Venturing out and doing this outrageous thing – quitting my job in my early 40’s, giving up my income, and moving to and living in a foreign country.  And I think some of my friends and family secretly think I’m crazy (they’re just too polite or nice to say it).

It’s true – it IS weird.  It IS crazy.  This is NOT the norm!

When Greg & I first started talking about it, I was like, well this is nice & fun to talk about, but there’s NO WAY we’ll ever really do it.   I mean – who really up and quits their job and moves to a foreign country with no plan of working before retirement age?  Well, it turns out, I do.  We do.

Back in 2011, as my husband’s job situation became more and more stressful, I became increasingly worried about him, and we talked more and more of DOING this dream-thing we’d talked about.  Yes, he could quit and go work somewhere else, but it would probably end up being the same situation (stressful, tied to his cell phone, on call 24/7)…

Managing people is always stressful (as I knew from my dad), but the position he was in had him continually torn between two different divisions of his company, and then throw in the client (usually attorneys). And, well, it just wasn’t pretty.   Suffice it to say – it was affecting him mentally, physically, and emotionally…  he had high blood pressure, and we were both stress eating horribly.  It was affecting US as a couple.   This was the first time in our marriage that I felt helpless.  Something big had to change.  We started seriously considering moving to Costa Rica.

Greg & I were both in relatively good health, and wanted to do this now while we still could and enjoy ourselves.  So many people work till 60 or longer (usually longer), and once they retire are in such poor health, that they don’t even get to ENJOY not working anymore.  Another thought I always carried around in my heart was that my dad had cancer and died at 59, with no enjoyment of retirement whatsoever.  He did take “early retirement” the year before he died, but there’s no way it was enjoyed the way it’s intended to be.  It really breaks my heart after all the hard work he put into his job, over his whole adult life to support my family, that he never got to retire and just do what he wanted to do with his time… Greg’s dad had been in poor health for a while, but was amazingly STILL working (part time, at 70!).  We knew his days were numbered – diabetes which affected both his feet so he could barely walk, several heart attacks, and most recently – kidney failure and dialysis.

The main reason we could not “retire early” in the states was health care costs.  Also – we were afraid the life style we were used to would be very hard to cut back on if we continued to live in the same environment.  We had talked about a few other foreign countries, but discarded them for various reasons, I won’t bore you with the details.  The country we kept coming back to over and over again, was Costa Rica.   Here’s a few reasons why:

  • It’s not TOO far away from the states (i.e. – a 4 hour plane trip from Dallas)
  • Time zone is the same (central time) – except Costa Rica doesn’t practice daylight savings time (so for half of the year there is a 1 hour’s time difference).
  • Costa Ricans are known to be welcoming and friendly to Americans
  • They have a stable and peaceful government (no army since 1948!)
  • They have good infrastructure (fancy word for good/affordable health care and easy internet access/wifi throughout the country)
  • Spanish is the main language (we’d always wanted to learn), and we heard lots of Costa Ricans also speak English fairly well.
  • There are affordable fully furnished houses for rent
  • Crime seemed to be relegated to petty theft unlike the drug cartel/kidnapping issues that plague several Latin American countries

 

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We did lots of research online and reading of books, and decided the next best thing to do was take a trip there.  Neither of us had ever been.  We asked my Mom (who’s a world traveler) if she’d like to join us, and she jumped at the chance.  She’s great to travel with, plus we wanted her to see first hand what we were considering and offer any opinions or questions that we might not think of.  We visited in January of 2012 – three different areas of the country:  Grecia (central valley), Arenal Lake (by a volcano which was supposed to be active) and Playa Hermosa, Guancasate (the pacific beach area).  We had a blast.  We rented an SUV and packed a LOT of due diligence into 10 days.

Grecia:  We wanted to start in Grecia, as it was close to San Jose where we’d be flying into.  It was a small town we had read about in the Central Valley with temperatures ranging from low 60’s at night to no higher than low 80’s during the day.  No AC or heat was required in the homes in Grecia.  We stayed at a modest B&B that was owned at the time by an awesome Canadian couple – Denny and Rachel.  They were kind, informative and helpful.  They hooked us up with some local expat’s that we had breakfast with one morning, and then we also met a real estate agent, who wanted to know if he could drive us around that day and show us potential rental properties/prices, just so we could get some ideas.  Everyone was kind in Grecia, and we liked the small town vibe.

Playa Hermosa:  We also wanted to visit the Pacific beach coast areas, even though we knew the temperatures were quite a bit IMG_0709hotter (and they were!).   We hired a couple to do a  “Due Diligence” tour with us over 2 days, which was geared to people like us who are thinking about a potential expat lifestyle.  They showed us tons of things including possible areas to live, grocery stores, doctor and vet offices, as well as other beach towns in the area. They answered all our questions, and we had a fantastic 2 days there at the beach!  Lovely area, but a little hot for us…

Lake Arenal:  Lake Arenal is a HUGE lake, and we stayed at a resort there (a small reward for all our hard due diligence work we’d been doing) called Los Lagos.  We were dismayed to hear the volcano was currently dormant, but the place we stayed was awesome, and had several natural hot springs and a gorgeous pool.  They had good food and lovely scenery – lizzards, butterflies, every type of bird you could think of, even a crocodile “farm”.  It was a great vacation stop for us.

So, with our first trip to Costa Rica under our belt, and much discussion and thinking about things…  we finally decided together that – YES WE WANTED TO DO THIS.  It still seemed super crazy, but it was exciting, and it would be an adventure!  And hey – if it didn’t work out, or we didn’t like it for some reason, we could always move back.  With our decision made, we slowly and methodically went about saving as much (more) money as we could and sold all of our possessions.  A few things were a little hard for me, but overall – it was very FREEING to get rid of all this “stuff” we’d accumulated over the years.  It felt good.  I didn’t want to define myself by the house I lived in, the type of car I drove, or the designer purse I carried.  Enough was enough.  Time for a change, indeed!


IMG_0173ABOUT THE AUTHOR:  Jen Beck Seymour is the Costa Rica Chica.  In June, 2013 she broke free of the rat race of North America where bigger was better, and moved here with her husband from Dallas, Texas.  She quit her artificially lit cubicle job and left all sense of stable income behind.   She believes in taking time now, while she is still young and healthy, to just ENJOY – life, her husband, day to day simplicity.   When she’s not blogging, she is either hiking, baking, sipping coffee or enjoying a glass of wine.  You can find her at:  www.costaricachica.com/wordpress